I’ve given this a lot of thought recently and I thought I’d spill my ideas here on paper for all to see and think about.
I think it’s important to tell people how you feel instead of bottling up your emotions. If you do bottle them up you are taking that venom internally and it just eats away and causes bad stuff to happen.
The question I’ve been thinking about is: Is it better to be blunt even if it hurts another person? OR should you try to say it as nice as possible?
I personally appreciate someone being up front and straight with me even if it offends me or hurts my feelings. I’d rather have it clear and easy up front than sweet and cloudy.
I think it’s important that people are honest with each other and don’t hold back things just because they are scared of pissing off someone or whatever. If you hold those things in you aren’t really being true to yourself. There is a way to tell someone what’s on your mind without being confrontational, however sometimes people might need to be hurt in order to understand.